1.First language of love-acknowledgment
The most profound need for human beings is the desire to be recognized by someone. Recognition is delivered in the following languages: Compliment a Good Work We may well be able to move on silently even if we have done well. But it is important to praise it in detail.
Thank you for your kind deeds. When you spend a long time with people, all those kind deeds are natural and often unresponsive. Even small things must be thankful. That's how we have joy and want to help you again next time.
Encourage your potential. Spending time together expresses and reveals the potential found.
-Please be polite. Love is to ask, not to ask.
Politely ask not for your desires and needs.
-Politely asking is to recognize the other person's personality, values and abilities and to give the person the choice. A polite request gives an opportunity to express love, but a rude demand is the opposite. It is not advisable to be bothered by not following your own wishes or to use forceful ways to force you to accept them. It is no better to command.
2. The second language of love-time together
Time together means focusing attention on someone. It's like turning off the television and conversing on the couch, focusing attention on each other. It is important to talk to each other when eating out while walking.
-Together, we spend our time emotionally paying attention to each other. When playing ball with a two-year-old child, the important thing is not the play, but the emotion between the father and the child.
-True conversation is important to hear. Rather than getting advice from a conversation, you want to understand your feelings. Marriage is more about living together than solving problems or problems. True conversation is possible when it comes in contact with emotions.
-Doing together, going to the market together, listening to music, going out for a picnic together, taking long walks, wiping a car together, watching a baseball game, skiing, going to a concert Or serving together.
3. The Third Language of Love-Gift
-It is very important to give and receive gifts to convey love across cultures. The gift is only a symbol and the person who gave it and the feeling at that time are remembered for a long time. If you don't think it's important and don't give it, you'll be distracted.
-A gift is good if it is love and sincerity, and it is better if the other person wants it.
4. The Fourth Language of Love-Service
To be happy by helping others and to express your love by doing something.
-For married couples, planning and taking time to think about things like cleaning the house, changing baby diapers, and helping with the dishes will require effort and energy. Doing this voluntarily can be a wonderful expression of love.
Jesus Christ showed this by washing his disciples' feet (John 13: 3-17). The apostle Paul said this truth, "Be slaves to one another with love" (Gal 5:13).
Love is a choice, not a coercion Politely asking for service gives a direction of love, but criticizing or asking for it prevents overflowing love. Nobody likes to do it. Love must always come from the heart. Love is not a demand of the other.
5. The Fifth Language of Love-Physical Contact
Many reports of child development have shown that children who hug or kiss are much healthier than children who have never had physical contact.
-The Jews brought their children “in hope of Jesus' touch (Mark 10:13)” and Jesus embraced and blessed the children (Mark 10: 14-16).
Holding hands, kissing, hugging or having sex with a couple is also a very important means of communicating love to your spouse.
-In some cases, such as sexual intercourse, you have to give all your warmth, and some touches are light.
Contact is so important. It is indeed precious to kiss or hug a couple. Contact is also important for children and parents. Thank you all friends, Good Luck
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